I feel like such a brat, but all these suppressed feelings after all these years towards the divorce are exploding out of my control. Can u guess said on April 17, 2014 at 9:28 pm. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting. He also said, and this made sense to me. After only being together for 2 months he is now fully moved in. It's going on nearly 8 months for me since mum died and I know Dad already has a lady friend. About my moms death than anyone i break down all the time and i dont feel lile good things could happen to me anymore and i went through this time where i would cut and try to kill myself but i realized my famoly doesnt need to go through another death.
If you have siblings, they can help relate to what you are feeling about the current situation. She seems to be a good, kind, smart woman and a loving mother and grandmother. You can add to the conversation by adding your answer as a comment. My father ended up selling their house and moving to Israel, where my parents had kept an apartment for 20 years. The wound of loss is too fresh.
My dad grieved terribly when he is found out her cancer was terminal, and he still cries when he talks about her. I need some time to think and feel before I talk to him about this. Cecilia b said on October 17, 2014 at 4:28 pm. I was feeling really awkward about the situation but since I confronted him and told him no more sneaking around and lying I feel much better. Since Mom's been gone, I've just gone on believing that he can fill part of that void, until now he's dating : Now it feels like I'm losing my dad too.
They were happy and my dad adored my mom. My mom and dad never had a good relationship. Your dad is probably trying to fill the gap in his heart, but knows dating wont really help. And his personal life is really none of my business. Embracing that might sweeten your disposition toward cake-bearing Kathies. Yeah, my dad did it just 5 months after mom died. You have ever right to feel the way you do.
Then to pick someone my mom knew and disliked, even more despicable! My mom stayed in the same house and got a new boyfriend very very quickly. What it comes down to is boundaries and respect for one anothers' feelings. Especially when it comes from someone who is in a close position to you. We agreed that the woman looked like a normal, nice person. I just cant wrap my mind around why he wants to date. My father was cognizant of the fact that he was still living, and should continue to do so as fully as possible.
We don't like her and what she did to my dad, my family and my mom's memory is unforgivable. He asked me if when the time comes if I would like to meet her and I said Yes but I told him that I will let him know if I;m not feeling a good vibe about it. My mom had to teach bim how to pick out his clothes for work and how to match. Fast forward 20 years and I found myself widowed at age 61. My beloved mother died two years ago from cancer. Jessica said on May 10, 2014 at 11:35 am.
We have not met the woman he is dating yet. And he yells way too much when we talk about her. My mom never dated until recently. My dad has not held the boundaries, so I have to. The picture looked like a head shot, giving it a formal, removed look as if it could have been pulled from a magazine.
I get that he is still young, hes only 62. You would think he could handle crying women but he just gets flustered, poor guy. Especially, if it was a happy long term marriage. He has taken an interest in my carrier as an actress and comes to my performances with my mother. My parents got divorced about 4 years ago and it is really herd on me. If she does fall more deeply in love with this new man than she was with my father how is that…possible? My sister and I were disgusted with him.