Potential pitfalls of this pairing: Because of the similarity between these partners, if one has a particular insecurity, they will most likely see it in their partner and be disgusted by it. If your infp was like me, it would be getting them to initiate. Be true and yourself, don't judge or be dramatic. It has been lack of initiative. I get depressed at random, just because I'm chemically imbalanced.
They love a good intellectual discussion and they love brainstorming and theorizing about what the future could hold. It goes far deeper than the senses and accesses the heart not discrediting those who lead with sensing and are perfectly satisfied with sensed love and usually leaves people with a profound sense of depth. I am respectful almost to a fault and sometimes past a fault. The best way to find out is by simply asking them out on a date. They believe it should an act of love. This is a challenge for me because I have at least 50 solid reasons floating in my head right now. The descriptions would help my coworkers understand me better.
Show her that you care about the way she is feeling and express your own feelings to her. They give themselves, body and soul, to their partner. My suggestion is go to some things like that and just get to know people. And so as I've been striving to understand our human experience, and different ways to navigate our time here on this planet, I've found understanding on a deeper level than I had before, of the role of relationship in this human experience with one another. Be aware that if you do ask them, prepare to wait for an answer. They enjoy being spontaneous, trying new things, and physically interacting with the outside world.
We want to feel like together, we are living a meaningful life. They provide an insight, empathy, and creativity that the world desperately needs. This constant repression can cause them to appear moody, angry, or irritable. She idealizes her partner, forgetting that no one is perfect. A good conversation or reading a good book together is often their idea of an exciting date. You will have to be fully mature and not co-dependent to be fulfilled in this relationship.
They embrace their uniqueness and individuality and can also accept their peers for who they are. This is probably the most misdiagnosed type, so be careful. These two types usually become quite close quite quickly, but the relationship is prone to competitiveness over time. . Anyway, you don't need to know all this. Hello, I've learned myself to be of infp brand.
They are attracted to people who have their own interests, desires, and pursuits and who are willing to take the relationship slowly to see where it leads. They tend to be cautious at the beginning of relationships and need time to open up and feel comfortable sharing a more intimate side of themselves. Am I making enough eye contact? The only concern I'd personally have is that of possible depression. Wow, you just described my relationship with an intj to the tee. I fell in love with exploring the world, and he fell in love with a more specialized profession. They love to discuss their hopes and dreams and the hopes and dreams of their partner and find ways to make those dreams a reality.
It's not that we're illogical idealists, I think it's more like we rely on our gut feelings to head us in the right direction. I suppose this would be a good example of accessing our entire function stack from the top to the bottom? After all, Si and Te can be understood to represent reliability and consistency. Be on time, be responsible, and make sure you keep to your commitments. As introverts who use Introverted Sensing i. Without such alone time, the individual would not be able to produce some of his best work. Sometimes, he doesn't seem to wanna talk. He came back, he asked me out like twice I just got cold feet.
We have core things in common but very different on other things. Took some time to learn to navigate and weed through the ridiculous people but there were a few potential matches I was interested in. I've been living my whole life watching successful people and trying to replicate their ways in my life that I had no idea how I actually functioned. They can be very sensitive, but often keep negative reactions to themselves because they are reluctant to engage in confrontation. However, when trying to be as straight-forward as possible, I am often met with passivity from women and I can be quite impatient and intense in my courting efforts. All of the successful relationships I have had have been with someone J, because they would make sure something else was scheduled and that they let me know what they wanted me to do including propose when they thought the time right. Like you my score on P was low.