I just wish I could find someone my age and those are the ones thinking 20-30 somethings want them… What 20-30 something woman would want a man in their 50's? You have no idea the amount of hate I have for 'people' like you, but I do thank you for providing some insight into the mind of a monster. That coming from a woman who is ten years younger than me. She'll tell him that he needs to see women's inner beauty, meanwhile she's evaluating men's height, finances, and status. I am told I am beautiful and kind. Months later, I am still not okay with him being so much younger.
I'm writing what I call a trovel — it's a novel with more truth than fiction. It doesnt give me that same enveloped feeling of being wrapped in a tall mans arms. He is super stubborn and not exactly the most romantic guy but he does alot of sweet things to make up for it. More and more we see much older men and women marrying younger, and its great! Mayo Im 20 yrs older than a man,who cooks, bakes, repairs, does anything I need for me. I can live without both those things. Then, of course, there's the equally antiquated idea that men who are vertically challenged are somehow less masculine.
We just work through things and learn from each other. When I was a senior in high school. My boyfriend is shorter than me. I'm 22 and i'm in love with a 16 year old. He started to casually hint that he would like to date an older woman as ladies his age want to get married and have children! I think more of the exclusions you see from men relate to weight. He makes me feel good, he treats me well, he is ambitious and mature and the sex is amazing! I enjoyed reading all of your posts.
I know God brought us together for a reason, I need to trust in that wherever it leads. And if be dating him makes me a cougar or a cradle robber, or whatever, it's totally worth it. Its all fairly new and we are now intimate also for the past couple of weeks. Although a man will get shamed by a woman who hears him stating a preference in women unless it puts her on a pedestal , she's free to casually trash men she deems insufficient. If it feels good and neither is committing adultery, why not see where the desires of Life takes you. No misogyny, misandry, transphobia, ageism, racism, general assholery, invalidation, or otherwise hateful or disrespectful commentary.
He is sweet kind and caring though after three months I feel like his interest may be waning he used to. Anonymous I have been seeing a French guy for two years, everything is perfect and very much in love. The news: We've all heard of the Divide your age by half and add seven years to get the minimum acceptable age for your romantic partner. Picture: Ella Byworth for Metro. My boyfriend is 19 and I'm 24. Other than that the men in my life have always been older than I am. So if I'm a craddle robber I plead guilty! Or you make sure to sit down at the same time.
Anonymous Hi well I am not married or anything I just am beginning to date a guy 3 years younger than me I'm 17 and he's 14 so is this bad? One was a 3rd degree black belt in Taekwondo, one was a drummer with unreal stamina, one is am accomplished chef. They get divorced less often Shorter men are less likely to get married —their marriage rate is about 18% lower than that of taller men, and the study proposes that this lower rate may be due women finding short men less masculine or desirable. But the more we talked I realized he has an old soul. Which when you think about it is a pretty silly way of thinking about dating. There was plenty of sexual tension and then I learned he was a groomsman and he found out I was his best friend's mom. I really care alot for this guy.
You love him, but it can really be a bit much. He never looks twice or stares at a pretty woman in my presence. But this kind of thinking conflates — which isn't really accurate. I'm a 29 year-old woman, and I just started dating a 25 year-old. He makes me so happy that I want to leave my husband who have cheated on me repeated.
We compliment each other and have a true love for each other. I am the happiest I've ever been! Would I take anyones advise to drop him? I used to be with older men, had a 12 year relationship and 10 year marriage with a man 8 years my senior, and obviously you are a very closed -minded individual for trying to shame an older woman because she landed a younger man. I don't think that's quite true. If you go around constantly feeling self-conscious because of your height, that will come across in your whole bearing, and is a turn-off. What do the majority of them have in common? Its been about a year now, so far its great, he is very serious about our relationship, and we never talk about our age difference. We have not had sex but I really want to.
Many women scoff at the , and and a claims it's actually the vast majority of women. I look at him sometimes and when I think about it age I literally see where I could have easily gotten In my own if I let age matter. But if it's making you feel uncomfortable then step back from it. Five months ago things took a different turn when he held my hand. I dont care what anyone thinks about it. But it's probably not an issue anyway.
Anonymous Here goes, I just turned 50 and tomorrow, I will be going out on a lunch date with a 31 year old, he's 19 years my junior! It's my testament of the greatest love I've ever felt for anyone other than my son and daughter. We love the same music, movies, food, dog lovers. A Young Person Isn't Young Forever The line of thinking that all younger guys are total scrubs dances around the fact that all older guys were once younger guys — and that younger guys will soon be older guys. If you are in love with someone older or even younger as long as they are not underage then go for it and hopefully it works out. She was more interested on my intentions with her son and if I was planning to be with him for the rest of my life or if I was just using him for a while. You could date someone 2, 3, 5 to 10 years older than you and he can treat you like crap or be immature.